Our current state of affairs
It’s beyond sad how many people are hurting all over America. And when you factor in that we aren’t likely to all mutually agree on how to fix the problem, it’s downright depressing.
While ignoring what’s happening and hoping everything goes back to “normal” might be the path of least resistance, that doesn’t make it the RIGHT thing to do in my mind.
When we look back on any meaningful change, we often forget that the end result represents a collection of thousands of little – and unseen – steps along the way. If we each commit to help in our own way, the results can and will compound over time. Here are two phrases that I’ve been reflecting on lately as I figured out my own next steps:
Strong convictions, loosely held.
To whom much is given, much is expected.
When new information presents itself, I do my best to update my convictions accordingly. It’s hard to do but the alternative – sticking to what we previously believed to be true – doesn’t benefit us or the people we seek to help.
For example, I went through a process a few years back that helped me define my values and establish a personal mission statement. Here’s what I came up with at the time:
Values
Possibility – Don't limit myself to the status quo. See possibility where others don't.
Autonomy - Having autonomy over my life and helping instill that sense in others.
Responsibility – Responsibility to myself and others to utilize the gifts given and support received.
Mission Statement
To have a meaningful impact in the lives of the people I interact with.
Recent events have helped me recognize it’s not enough to impact the lives of the people I personally interact with. I need to do more.
So I updated my mission statement to reflect that change:
To have a meaningful impact in the lives of the people I interact with and those that I can help.
After talking about it with Michelle, we’re now donating more to help underprivileged kids gain opportunities through sports. We’re excited to be supporting some great organizations like Serve & Return Chicago, Beat the Streets Chicago, and Chicago Run.
Our current state of affairs has helped me remember – as someone who has been given so much – that I need to proactively be part of the solution.
When’s the last time you revisited your values and made sure they are aligned with your actions?
My own self examination was eye opening. It forced me to be honest with myself that my charitable contributions were becoming reactive in nature and my best intentions weren’t translating into the meaningful financial commitments I thought they should. Adding my annual charitable contributions to specific organizations into my own financial plan should help my actions to match up with my intentions.
If you find yourself feeling the same way and wanting to do more to help, making the time to review your values is a great way to get started. I’m happy to listen and help make sure you’re following through on your best intentions.
And remember, small changes that each individual implements – when taken together – have the power to make a big difference.
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